How to protect yourself from evil relatives?

People are suffering the deadliest importance of confrontations with their closest relatives. Your siblings, parents, in-laws, spouse, and even your children may drive you to your grave despite you being most loving towards them. Instead, they might want to demolish you even more.

Konrad Z. Lorenz — Nobel prize winner and a founding father of ethology, wrote in his books: There is no worse aggression and barbarity than of the people of the same herd. They can yank each other to crumbs for some sinister reasons.

Why do some relatives hate you?

Proximity:

• You might grow up with these people;
• They might know all your deformities;
• They might detect you or what you own as their property;
• The lack of span may deter their loyalty;
• You might have solid emotional leverage over each other.

So, here are the most common ways of comparison that exists :

Comparison:

• Researchers concluded that covetousness outcomes from comparison:

“If you are the same as us if you dwelled next to us and had the same living ailments, you should not live better than us”

• The more biological gifts you have, the more you show your well-being and achievements, the more assault and hatred arise in your lecture;
• Any jealous person desires to take what belongs to you and destroy you periodically, even you as an individual. However, unlike relatives, outsiders often cannot do this as they do not have access to you.

How to protect yourself from evil relatives:

• Avoid conflicts, if possible.

The best one-word solution to repeal many conflicts is to say “perhaps.” They might tell you, you are “….” (fill the blank). Your answer is “perhaps” (it is only their opinion, but not yours).

• If the conflicts have occurred.

Do not justify yourself or explain. Instead, state what truth is and what is not

• Ask for their advice.